If Stress Becomes Overwelming

When stress becomes overwhelming, it is okay to turn to others for professional help. The Wellness Resource Lab, WRC 104, might be a good place to start. Health educators on staff can help locate self-help resources and provide referral.

In addition, UNI has an excellent counseling staff that can serve your needs.Counseling services are confidential and provided free of charge to students who have paid the Student Health Fee.

What Is Stress?

The word "stress" has many different connotations and definitions. In common usage, it refers to two different things:

1. situations that trigger physical and emotional reactions (often called a "stressor") and
2. the reactions themselves (known as a "stress response").

The first mistake is to believe all stress is negative or bad. People need some stress in their lives. It is a fact of life. It is stimulating, increases our adrenaline, and adds excitement!

Different people have different stress levels that are appropriate for them. Some people need more stress in their lives than others. It is important to find a balance that works best for you.

Symptoms Of Stress


  • Physical: upset stomach, trouble sleeping/feeling tired, accidents or injuries, tight chest or throat, backaches, loss of appetite, headaches, exhaustion, cold

  • Mental: trouble concentrating, difficulty making decisions, forgetfulness, scary thoughts, making errors, repetitive thoughts

  • Emotional: grumpy, tense, impatient, hopeless, hostile, easily upset, no enjoyment, lonely, depressed

  • Behavioral: excessive drinking, poor eating habits, driving too fast, drug use, frequent arguments, becoming a loner, working too much, criticizing others often

Identifying Stressors

Take a moment to think about the stressors in your life. Sometimes it helps to identify what they are so we can begin to relieve stress before it warrants medical attention!

Common Stressors
Ways To Relieve Stress

  • Financial problems
  • Excessive drinking
  • Worrying
  • Health problems
  • Pressure at work or school
  • Not enough sleep or exercise
  • Poor diet
  • Relationship issues
  • Weight issues
  • Working too much
  • No quiet or alone time
  • Conflict at job
  • Family conflicts
  • Sexual problems
  • No one to talk to
  • Being a caretaker
  • Scholarships
  • Tests

  • Get more sleep
  • Journal
  • Allow yourself quiet time
  • Eat a well balanced diet
  • Cry
  • Exercise
  • Ask for help if you need it
  • Simplify
  • Allow time for things you enjoy
  • Go to a park
  • Play with an animal
  • Yoga
  • Take a hot bath
  • Take a break to stretch
  • Laugh
  • Read a good book
  • Watch a movie
  • Take a vacation
  • Call a friend

Take Charge Of Your Stress

By taking charge of our stress, we can deal with the stressors of our everyday lives. Try these simple suggestions to start taking charge!

  • Make a list of what's going on in your life and prioritize what is really important. Take time to look at the big picture and ask yourself, "Will this really matter in a week, a month, a year?"

  • List your values. Do your values match up with the list of things that are causing stress in your life? i.e. would it make decision making easier to choose to do things based on your value system?

  • Check your timing: figure out what you can and cannot let go of now.

  • Make an action plan and do it! This can mean prioritizing, delegating tasks, setting aside time for yourself, learning how to say "no" to others, etc.

Stress Reliever Recipes

STRESS BALLOONS

You will need: Balloons, Funnel, & Flour.

1. Blow balloon up a little and release the air (this stretches the balloon).
2. Place the balloon over tip of funnel.
3. Pour flour into the funnel.
4. Push flour into balloon (make sure to squeeze out the air).
5. When balloon is desired size, take balloon off the funnel and tie it.

NECK ROLLS

You will need: Knee length sock, Rice or any legumes, Lavender, sage, or other relaxing scents, and Wide mouth funnel.
1. Fill socks with rice, add scent, and secure end.
2. Microwave for 10-20 seconds.
3. This provides stress reducing comfort for the neck.

BATH SALTS

You will need: ¾ cup Epsom salts, ¼ cup baking soda, 1 ½ cup coarse sea salt, and10 drops essential oils

1. In a large bowl, combine salts and baking soda.
2. Add food coloring and scents.
3. Stir mixture together. The drop of food coloring will break up and distribute the salt.
4. Pour salt through funnel into large glass bottle.

Stress Management Resources

(found in the Wellness Resource Lab, WRC 104)

Relaxation Room

This quiet room has recliners, dim lighting, a reflection fountain, and a CD/Tape player
to listen to relaxation tapes and/or music. Quiet Oasis is an audio-tape developed by
Martha Colwell which incorporates four stress management techniques:

1) Breathing exercises
2) Progressive muscle relaxation
3) Autogenic exercises
4) Imagery.

This tape is 30 minutes of music with narration, or 30 minutes of music only. Videos

Stress Management Videos

"Manage It!" 6 video series. Topics include stress traps, stress overload, interpersonal conflict, addictive patterns, job stress, and survival skills. Other videos include:

"Success with Stress: Take charge of Your Life"
"Success with Stress: Manage a Fast-Paced Life"
"Success with Stress: Develop New Stress Skills"
"Efficient Time Management"
"Lighten-Up"
"A Day Away from Stress"
"Stress: Keeping Your Cool"
"Handling Stress Today and Tomorrow" and
"Earth Prayers: Stress Reduction."

The Wellness Lab has a TV/VCR to preview videos. You may check out media for five days.
Books

Stress Management Books

We have several books on stress management.
Wellness Lab Stress Management Books

Pamphlets

Many different pamphlets are available on stress. Ask a desk assistant to help you find what you are looking for.

Reproducible Stress Management Worksheets

Life Skill Builders by Parlay International has a very nice selection of worksheets on stress
ranging from stress effects, signals of distress, time management, relaxation techniques,
massage techniques, and more.

Peer Health Educator Programs

Peer Health Educators are students trained in facilitating such programs as massage, stress management, as well as empathy belly, organ donation, fatal vision, and condom sense. Call the Wellness Lab at 273-6119 to schedule a program for your house at UNI. Please call 2 weeks in advance.