Relationship Health Quiz
Answer yes or no to each question, then check your score below:
- Do you value the same things in your partner that you value in yourself?
- Does your face spontaneously break into a smile when you see your partner?
- When you leave the house, does your partner have a sense of well being, having been nourished by your company?
- Can you and your partner tell each other honestly what you really want instead of using manipulation or games?
- Can your partner get angry at you without your thinking less of her/him?
- Can you accept your partner as he/she is instead of having several plans to change her/him?
- Can you feel comfortable with your partner when he/she's wearing old clothes?
- Do you enjoy introducing your partner to your friends or acquaintances?
- Are you able to share with your partner your moments of weakness, failure, disappointment?
- Would your partner say you are a good listener?
- Do you trust your partner to solve his/her own problems?
- Do you believe you could live a full and happy life without your partner?
- Do you encourage your partner to develop his/her full potential as a person?
- If your partner were to die tomorrow, would you be very happy you had the chance to meet him/her and have a relationship?
- Does your partner feel he/she's more important than any other human being or anything else in your life?
- Do you believe you know at least five of your partner's major needs and how to meet those needs in skillful ways?
- Do you know what your partner needs when he/she's under stress or discouraged?
- When you offend your partner, do you usually admit you were wrong and seek his/her forgiveness?
- Would your partner say you praise him/her at least once a day?
- Would your partner say you are open to his/her correction?
- Would your partner say you are a protector, that you know what his/her limitations are as a man/woman?
- Would your partner say you usually consider his/her feelings and ideas whenever making a decision that affects the family or him/her?
- Would your partner say you enjoy being with him/her and sharing many of life's experiences with him/her?
- Would your partner say you area good example of what you would like him/her to be?
- Would you say you create interest in him/her when you share things you consider important?
If you answered "yes" to 10 or less questions, then your relationship is in major need of overhaul.